you weren't born to be a background character in your own life

The Dad Reset™

Wake Up. Live Fully.

90 days to come back to yourself, lead with presence,
and live like you actually mean it.

For dads who are tired of drifting, done pretending,
and ready to show up like they’re really here.

with Mihai Voicu

You’re here… but not really.

You move through the day like a ghost.
Physically present, mentally somewhere else.
Always on. Always doing. But disconnected from yourself and your people.
It’s time to slow down.
To reset.
To lead your life. Not just manage it.

90 days. One decision. A different life.

I'M READY

You probably feel it too...

Your life is moving fast, but you feel stuck.
You’re always doing something, but rarely feel here for any of it.
Work, family, the to-do list — it all blurs together.
You love your family. You want to be present.
But most days, it feels like you’re just trying to get through.Maybe it looks like this:– Same routine, different day. Wake up, push through, crash, repeat
– You’re pulled in every direction, but none of it feels like your choice
– You’re zoning out. Snacking, scrolling, reaching for something to help you feel anything
– Life is just happening to you. You’re managing everything, but not really leading any of it.You go to bed wired. Wake up tired. And somewhere in between, you wonder when you stopped feeling like yourself.Until one day, it hits you:You didn’t choose this. Not like this.
This isn’t how you want to live the rest of your life.This isn’t just about you. The longer you wait, the heavier it gets. For you, and for everyone around you.

I Know That Feeling. I Lived It.

For 10 years, I followed the path laid out for me.
Military career. Good salary. Clear structure. Early retirement.On paper, it was perfect.
But inside, I felt numb.
Like I was doing everything right, but none of it felt real.So I left.
The uniform. The plan. The “you’ve got it made” life.
I traveled to over 30 countries, filled journals, read everything I could find… trying to figure out who I actually was.But even then, after walking away from everything, I was still drifting.And then I found out I was going to be a dad.
That changed everything.No more running.
No more searching.
No more letting life happen to me.I had to become the kind of man I could be proud of.
Not someday. Now.That’s where The Dad Reset came from.
Not from a textbook.
From real life.Because I know what it’s like to look around and wonder:
“When did I disappear?”

SECURE YOUR SPOT

Introducing The Dad Reset™

This isn’t a course. It’s not a stack of videos you forget by next week.It’s a 90-day reset for men who are tired of managing life and ready to start leading it.
Not perfect. But solid. Clear. Yours.You’ll come back to yourself.
You’ll feel present in your own home again.
And you’ll start leading your life—without burning out, shutting down, or running away.This is where things begin to shift.
Not because someone saves you.
But because you finally show up.
Not just for them. For you.

Why This Works When Nothing Else Does:

You don’t need more podcasts or parenting advice.
You need something that helps you move — now.This reset is built for real dads with full lives.
No fluff. No overwhelm. One clear shift at a time, rooted in what actually matters.I’ve lived this. I’ve walked with other men through it.
This isn’t theory. It’s what works in real homes, with real families, under real pressure.Most dads feel it.
That slow slide into autopilot.
But they stay stuck.
They tell themselves they’ll fix it later.
But later keeps slipping.
The Dad Reset is here so that doesn’t happen to you.

What Starts to Shift

You wake up and don’t feel behind before the day even starts.
You’re with your family and actually feel like you’re there.
You move slower, and this time, without guilt.
You catch yourself before the old habits pull you under.
You stop reaching for your phone to escape and start reaching for something real.
Your kid says something small, and you hear it. Not just the words. The meaning behind them.
And when things go sideways, you know how to come back to yourself.

What Happens When You Wake Up?

You walk in the door and your shoulders drop.
You’re not tense anymore. Not bracing. Just here.You sit next to your kid and you’re not thinking about Slack, or your phone, or the next thing to fix.
You’re just… there.Your partner doesn’t just hear you.
She feels you.You stop reacting. You start responding.
With clarity. With calm.And time doesn’t blur together like it used to.
You’re actually in your life now.

I'M READY

What’s Inside The Dad Reset

This isn’t something you download and forget. It’s something you live through.
You’ll get clear guidance, honest support, and space to reset without pressure.Here’s what’s inside:

1:1 Guidance – One Call a Week

One hour. Just us.
We look at what’s happening in your life right now.
We find what’s draining you. We shift it.
You walk away steady, with one clear step to take.

Daily Support on Telegram

Life doesn’t wait for the next guidance call.
You can message me when you feel stuck, lost, or slipping back into old habits.
I’ll respond within 24 hours.
No more spinning on your own or guessing your way forward.

The FLOW Framework

A tool that helps you reset.
When life feels loud, this brings you back to what matters.
It shows you what to drop, where to focus, and how to move forward.
Simple. Clear. It works.No more overthinking or trying to remember what a podcast said.
Just something you’ll actually use.

My Personal Systems & Tools

I don’t hand you templates.
You’ll get the tools I actually use to present, simplify life, and lead without burning out.
What works for me—and now, works for the dads I guide.

What We Actually Work On

Every dad’s path is different.
But here’s how it usually flows:First weeks
We slow down.
Clear space.
Start noticing the patterns pulling you off track.
You begin hearing your own voice again.Middle stretch
This is where the shift begins.
You stop reacting.
You start choosing how you show up.
Not with pressure. With clarity.Final phase
You’ve built your rhythm.
You know how to come back when things get messy.
You lead from calm, not control.
You’re not perfect. You’re present.
And that changes everything.

Bonuses — To Help This Stick For Life

I didn’t make these to impress anyone.
I built them when I was tired, stretched thin, and ready to break.
They helped me stay steady.
They’ve helped other dads too.
Now they’re yours.

BONUS #1: The Rooted Week

A short, honest guidebook (PDF).
7 days. 7 qualities.
One story, one shift, one practice each day.
Built to give you rhythm when everything feels loud.

BONUS #2: The Rooted Dad Wake-Up Guide

Quick and sharp.
For the days you feel yourself slipping.
Helps you spot the drift and take a step back.

*BONUS #3: Two Rooted Support Bots

One supports you in hard parenting moments.
The other gives guidance like I would — when you need direction, fast.
Not magic. Just helpful.

BONUS #4: Access to the 3AM Club

A quiet space for dads like you.
You’re not the only one doing this work.
You’ll connect with other men on this path. Men who get it. Men who are doing the work.

BONUS #5: Printable Rooted Tools

One-pagers from The Rooted Week.
Stick them on your fridge, journal, or wall.
So when you’re tired or overwhelmed, you’ve got something to lean on.

This isn’t a course or a quick fix.
It’s a reset that helps you come back to yourself. And stay there.

I'M IN

Are We A Good Fit?

This isn’t for everyone. And that’s okay.
But if you’ve made it this far, there’s a reason.

This is for you if:

– You feel like a spectator in your own life, and you’re done pretending it’s fine
– You want to be more present with your family, but you don’t know how to break the cycle
– You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, done the self-talk—and still feel stuck
– You’re not chasing tips. You want something real. Something that actually sticks

This is not for you if:

– You just want quick hacks
– You’re not ready to look at your own patterns
– You want someone else to do the work for you
– You still think being a good dad is only about providing

I Won’t Let You Stay Stuck

That’s why the Dad Reset is risk-free.

Most programs throw information at you and hope something clicks.
This isn’t that.After our first call, you’ll have real clarity.
You’ll know where you are, what’s been pulling you off course, and what to do next.If you don’t feel that shift, if it doesn’t land as a true reset, just say so.
I’ll refund you. No pressure. No story. No hard feelings.You’re not locked in.
You’re invited in.

The Dad Reset

90 days to stop drifting, lead with presence, and
come back to what matters.

^€5000

Only 3 spots open

This isn’t something you watch.
It’s something you live through.
A full reset—with honest guidance, quiet accountability, and tools that actually fit your life.

Here’s what you get:– 90 days of 1:1 guidance. One 60-min call per week
– Daily support on Telegram. I reply within 24 hours.
– The FLOW Framework. A tool to reset anytime, for the rest of your life.
– My personal systems and tools. The ones that keep me steady, focused, and present.

You’ll also get lifetime access to:– The Rooted Week — a 7-day guide to rebuild your rhythm
– The Wake-Up Guide — for the days when you’re drifting
– Two Rooted Bots — one for parenting support, one for fast guidance
– The 3AM Club — a quiet space with other dads on the same path
– Printable Tools — one-pagers you can grab when your brain’s fried

You don’t have to prove anything.If this speaks to you, click below and let’s talk.

APPLY FOR A SPOT — LIMITED TO 3 FATHERS

Still on the fence? That’s normal.

You’re not broken for hesitating.
It just means this matters to you.Let’s name what might be getting in the way:

“I don’t have time.”

You probably don’t.
But how long can you keep running on empty?
What’s the cost of staying stuck?

“I should be able to figure this out on my own.”

Most men think that.
But leading in isolation? That’s how the drift gets worse.
You weren’t meant to carry it all alone.

“What if this doesn’t work for me?”

You’ll know after the first call.
If it’s not what you need, you’ll get a full refund.
No story. No pressure.

“I need to talk to my partner about this.”

Of course. This will affect both of you.
You might ask her:
“Would you want me to lead our family from a calmer, clearer place?”

“It’s not the right time.”

Maybe.
But most men wait until it gets worse.
The right time doesn’t show up. It gets chosen.

If you’ve made it this far, something in you already knows.
Trust that.
Click below to apply. If it’s a fit, we’ll talk.

LET'S TALK

This is your moment.
You’re carrying more than you admit.
People rely on you. Work piles up.
You’ve got a family to love, a full plate to manage, and still, something feels off.It’s not that you’re failing.
You’ve just lost touch with yourself.You’re here.
But not really here.
Always doing. Rarely breathing.And if nothing changes, this version of life keeps rolling.Until one day you look back and realize:
The moments that mattered most passed you by.– Your kid asking for your full attention
– Your partner needing your presence, not just your help
– The part of you that wanted this life and is still waiting for you to show upMost men don’t choose that kind of drift.
But they let it happen. Because they’re too deep in it to stop.This is your chance to stop.
To reset.
To lead again—this time with clarity, not control.

This isn’t a program.
It’s a conversation. A shift.
Something we build together.That’s why I only take on a few dads at a time.
To keep this grounded.
To make sure the work actually lands.If this spoke to you, click below and apply.
If it’s a fit, we’ll talk.

I'M READY

Still got questions? Just email me.